i hav a colleague who always treat me as "buddy", yes, he is kind of the guy who easily to be friend with, and always try his hard to solve my problem when i was in trouble, be frank, i. . . don really treat him as a good friend but just. . . maybe just colleague, i think im not friend materials cos i always don know how to take the first move, like ask them out for lunch or movie. but this army-boy has been askin me out for weeks but still got rejected, haha, im so impressed by his intention for trying to make friend with me, and, although he is not really my friend type but i somehow see a good deal with him. optimistic, isnt it wat teenagers supposed to hav?